I've been reading notes and blogs and I realized why not create a fresh blog site whereas people could know my thoughts about things and write what I feel. I'm feeling a bit biased about having 2 blog sites. It feels like i have
two persona(s). However, I've decided to let this site be open to everyone. To let this be a site where people could see (read) through me.
We all felt
the trouble of INSECURITY.
When I was in High School not many of my batch mates play guitar, let's say approximately 1/4 of our batch knows how to play the guitar and I (before) considered it a special talent. I find the 1/4 of our batch very cool and from then on I realized I want to learn how to play the guitar. I had very hard fingers back then, that's why it was so hard for me to get what they were teaching me. Now, for the record, I know how to play the guitar, my hard fingers soften cause I had love and determination to accompany me
Being a high school student (before), I saw predominance when it comes to feeling we want to
belong to the in crowd or at least categorize ourselves as those with higher values. I guess that's why High School musical was created, to depict what it feels like to be in High School. There were cute puppy loves and endless crushes I hear and experienced but back then just like what some elders predicted they didn't go well for me. I had crushes.
I had my fair share of insecurities as well, an example is I found out my crush likes my friend. It was really heartbreaking, 2 thoughts just keep on repeating inside my head, first is, "Why her? Why of all the people her?" second is, "I can't compete with her, she will win". Because of these 2, I felt how I'm not good enough for my crush and how little I am towards my friend. Well, it's funny cause here are the
Thought busters people must ponder on (if you feel or felt this way):
- "Why her? Why of all the people her?" - Why not her? I mean, let's know for a fact that he likes her and you can't just tell him, "Pick me, Pick me" A reminder for all the girls, we are all precious, we are unique and God loves us so much he has already planned our love story. Plus, I have to add expecting more from your guy friend doesn't mean they'll feel the same way. There may be signs he likes you but it's best if he tells it to you directly. Also, it's just now i realized I'd want to meet a guy who'd help me in my walk with Christ. Someone who'd study the Bible with me and someone who'd love God above all else.
- "I can't compete with her, she will win" -If we think it's all about competing to win and apparently you've just lost, does your friendship with your friend and him would end there? if she's all he wants then respect him. Besides when you get blinded by what he sees, you see what you don't have, you've lost sight to what you have. I know it sounds redundant but if we count our blessings, we'd find contentment. We wouldn't have to lose what we already have.
God created us differently but in HIS own image and likeness, we differ in so many ways but as a Christian and as a human being, we all have our own beauty it doesn't matter if someone has this or that what matters is what you have that God gave you. He's already planned our love story and we're all here for God. I know it defies "I was born for you" (to someone here on earth) but it's true. We're all here for God, to be the stewards of His creations.